Like Julie, I am moved and saddened by the case of the adoptive mom sending her son back to his homeland because of attachment difficulties.  I have tried numerous times to be fair — to put myself in her shoes, to "try on" the emotions she may have encountered as she contemplated her next move(s).  I’m trying to be just, to be understanding.

And finding it really difficult.  REALLY difficult.

Instead of judging, though, I think I’m called instead to help stir the conversation that needs to take place.  Katelyn’s Fund Orphan Ministry has been such a blessing to my family, and, in turn, I try to promote integrity on its behalf.  One of our chief components of the 4-fold strategy is support.  We have monthly support meetings aimed at tackling those difficult topics — such as attachment difficulties and transition challenges and older child adoption… the list goes on and on.  Katelyn’s Fund even has a new branch in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, trying to tap into families an hour or more away who are seeking support, encouragement, and a safe haven for truthful conversation.

We MUST talk.  Christians are called to support orphans, but God doesn’t promise the road will be clear or easy.  In times of difficulty, we shouldn’t shoulder the burden alone.  Join with us at Katelyn’s Fund, where we are yoked together to weather incoming storms.  Let’s talk before acting… and let’s never forget, in the meantime, to pray.